The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best.
Epictetus
Whose presence calls forth your best? We will grow with whomever we sustain a relationship. The only consideration is if that growth leads to goodness and leads to flourishing or if the growth is destructive. Either way, you’re getting older and changing as a result of their influence as they are changing as a result of yours.
The Pocket Philosopher 